There’s a hilarious Pin on my “In a Few Words” board on Pintrest that features Ryan Gosling “Hey Girl,” meme. It basically says we socialize dogs and educate kids.
Wikipedia‘s definition of “Socialization” states
Socialization is the process by which human infants begin to acquire the skills necessary to perform as a functioning member of their society, and is the most influential learning process one can experience. Unlike other living species, whose behavior is biologically set, humans need social experiences to learn their culture and to survive.
As the whole world knows, home educators NEVER leave their house, hence their concern for the well-being of our children. When they ask the inevitable, “What about socialization?” What most are REALLY asking is, “Do you ever leave your cave?” As if we are hermits, holed up in our compounds, who never make eye contact with civilization when we dare to make a trip to the grocery stores without our husbands (or wives). (gasping for breath)
Okay, okay, it’s not THAT bad but the question does surface and not necessarily from friends but sometimes strangers. My husband and I were grilled, chastised, made to stand trial for our decision to homeschool our kids by acquaintances (a former teacher and her daughter… who was a teacher).
“We need good kids in our schools.” Like it’s MY fault I won’t feed my sons to them? She proceeded to ask the question of the universe, “What about socialization?” Her nose crinkled when she asked it. I immediately thought of the bullying epidemic. Was that the ‘socialization my sons were missing out on? No thanks. I don’t recall our answer. My husband jumped in to enlightened them. Satiated with our reply, the women went on to complain about class size and uninvolved parents.
Yes, the question does get under my skin. Continue reading